Tell Me What to Read. Please.

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natops and packIt’s a little scary to find out that history does repeat itself – it’s even scarier to see one’s own mind run like a CD player on repeat.  A year ago I was writing about my mushy brain and the end of the semester.  I was making lists and planning my summer.  And here I am again.  At this point it might be appropriate to give the end of May slump some sort of catchy name – at least then I’d be expecting it.

Like last spring, my brain is working on lists.  I am trying to reset, to find creative space to write and think about something new, but for now there is great comfort in short bits of words.

My most impressive list is nearly six pages long.  I’ve had help with this one – it’s a packing list for a long backcountry trip.  I downloaded the checklist, and made my own notes in the empty margins.  Then I passed it on to a friend who covered it in sticky notes and amended priorities.  The list is nearly complete.  I have gear stashed all over the house and in a week or so my post-it-note wielding girlfriend will double check my loot. But one crucial item has me stumped.

I only get to take one book.

Thirty days – one book.  Electronic devices can’t be charged, so borrowing my son’s Kindle is out.  My mother has suggested poetry.  In her mind a good collection of poetry never gets old.  I worry that poems won’t give me the narrative arch I need to escape from sleeping on the ground for a month.  One of my writing friends suggested David Foster Wallace’s masterpiece Infinite Jest.  I’ve been avoiding it for years and the three hundred endnotes alone could keep me busy.  Another friend told me to take something familiar, a beloved book to keep me company.  I could reread All the Pretty Horses or Stegner’s Where the Bluebird Sings from the Lemonade Springs.  But I might get bored.

I made my first longish backpacking trip when I was 12.  I spent five days in the Beartooth Mountains with my ten-year old brother, my father, and one Nancy Drew mystery.  The Beartooths are rugged and impressive.  We didn’t see another person until we hiked down out of our camp on day six.  We hiked and fished and played in the mountains for nearly a week, but the most memorable part of the trip was the four straight days of rain.  I spent more time in my little green pup tent than I care to remember.  I read the Nancy Drew book slowly. Twice.

Some of the current stacks

Some of the current stacks

The one book dilemma has been with me for a while.  My friends ask if I’ve figured it out yet.  I look to anyone and everyone for suggestions.  I consult every ‘best of list’ I can find.  I decide and set something in the gear pile and then I get nervous and snatch it back.  It feels like a big commitment.

Not long ago, my mother found the warped copy of Nancy Drew in the bottom of her old pack – the one I carried into the mountains twenty-five years ago.  It’s a good reminder.  Nearly a week in a wet tent could have been a disaster, but instead it was the beginning of a long love affair with the mountains.  I’m sure this trip will be the beginning of something too.  I just have to find the right book.

- Sarah

90% of Life is just Showing Up

empty-desk-clipart-i1[1]During the last week of school, I received an e-mail from a student asking for an extension on her final project/paper. I had given this assignment to my sophomore level American Literature the third week of school, and I had expected that they would be working on the assignment at least all during  the last half of the semester. The assignment was to read a novel  written during the period we were studying (1870-2000) and write a paper in which the student drew connections between the material we had read and discussed in class and that drew on outside resources to discuss this novel. They were also expected to put together a 3-5 minute presentation that they would share with the rest of the class.  So, two days before the day of the presentations, one of the young women e-mailed me to ask for an extension. I told her she could have an extension on the paper but that she still would have to present during the presentation time. I think commented that she had missed a lot of class and that that would reflect in her grade.  She wrote back that she would have attended more if she had known that attendance counted.

I was quite astonished. First of all, my syllabus clearly states that attendance is important because the class depends on discussion, but furthermore, I was astonished that anyone would assume that attendance was not important. Didn’t this student think that something might happen in class that might be important?  She did confess to being a little intimidated by the other students who seemed to know more than she did. I pointed out that if she had come to class regularly, she might have felt less intimidated.    Why would a student sign up for a class and then not attend? Why wouldn’t she understand that coming to class would help her understand the material?

In one of my Freshman Comp classes, attendance dropped from 26 the first week to 12 who actually took the final.  I am not a dull teacher, but even if I were a dull teacher, don’t students realize that the only people they are hurting but not attending class are themselves? I am not the one paying for college.

I have attended enough College Orientation meetings to know that the refrain “Go to Class” is often repeated.  I know every student hears it many times as they begin college.

The young woman who asked for an extension did not pass. When I looked at my grade book, I realized that she had not turned in either of the other two writing assignments I had given, I am sure this is because I gave them in class, and she was not there. She did not check Blackboard to see if I had posted them. (I had.), nor did she ask me if she had missed anything, nor did she ask her classmates.

While this young woman is extreme, I routinely have students ask me if I am doing anything “important” in class when they tell me that they are going to miss class. I am always aghast. Why would anything we do in class be unimportant? The underlying assumption is that they only need to come if we are doing something “important.”  I do not know how to combat this attitude.  I will not call students to find out why they have not come to class. I hold up my part of the education bargain. I teach. I advise. I do whatever I can to help students who are doing their parts, but I cannot help students who do not come to class.

Our nation is embracing something called the “Completion Agenda,” which is pushing colleges to increase the numbers of students who complete something, a certificate, an Associate’s Degree, a Bachelor’s Degree.  This is noble. Clearly an unfinished anything is worth less than a finished anything. Ask any number of people who almost finished their Ph.D.’s but ended up ABD instead, however, teachers and administrators can only do so much. If students do not understand that they must do their parts, we will continue to have the abysmal completion rates.

J

“The artist always betrays his tribe.” Sherman Alexie

thCA53KB6KI had an interesting conversation with my American Literature students on the last day of class, which was last Friday. I asked them about what over-arching themes they saw in the literature we had studied and what they thought that they gained from the class.  One young man said that he thought the idea of “searching for a home” seemed to appear in American Literature from the very beginning. The class seemed to agree with him and thought that from the very beginning Colonial Literature this appeared in one way or another. Someone else said that in the literature  from the mid-20th C on there seemed to be a lot of “searching for identity,”   as the emerging women’s voices, Latino voices, African-American voices and gay and lesbian voices began appearing. One young woman kind of bristled at that comment and said something about being put off by the activist tone, the political tone and identity-driven tone of that literature. She said she much preferred the British Romantic novelists, like Thomas Hardy.

I began thinking about this and thinking particularly, because I know this student loves it, about Tess of the d’Ubervilles.  What I don’t think this student sees is that this is as much as transgressive text as some of the pieces we have read this semester.  Here’s story of sexual assault, of class and of displacement. Hardy’s book created quite a stir when it was published. Its heroine is a strong young woman who, although she rejects his advances, is assaulted by a young man who is, in terms of class, apparently her superior and who takes advantage of that “class privilege.”  In 19th C. England, the idea that one would sympathize with the victim in this circumstance would have been shocking ,and yet Hardy does and creates Tess as a sympathetic character, in fact subtitling the book A Pure Woman.

For this student, Tess represents a romantic story far removed from the “identity politics” that plays out in  the work of many late 20th C writers, but what she doesn’t see is that Hardy was “betraying his tribe” in a way that many others betrayed theirs later. His language is 19th C, but his sentiments are clearly not. He is making a very clear statement about the treatment of women and about the English class system.

This young woman’s implication was that many of the 20th C writers were too “political.” My response to her was that it was easy to be a white-faced, blued-eyed girl in a very white-faced town, but that she might think about what some of the 20th C writers were saying. I’d say, for example, that Langston Hughes’ poem “Mother to Son”  (“life for me ain’t been no crystal stair”) isn’t just about the African-American experience, but that of any mother who has struggled to survive “gets” the poem, but Hughes’ metaphor is so clear that even someone who has not brought up a child in difficult circumstances understands the poem and the situation.

Yet there were those who thought that Hughes was “betraying his tribe” when he wrote in Black vernacular and not standard English because, they said, it implied that African-Americans only spoke  sub-standard English. This is clearly a shallow argument as people’s reactions to “Mother to Son” attest. It’s a beautiful poem whose language is clear and moving, and if it had been written in standard English, would have felt forced and wrong.

As we talked about what things people had taken from the class, one older student, a woman in her 60’s, said that reading all the different voices in American Literature had taught her empathy.  I hope the young woman student was listening. If she was, she may take another look at our fine writers, at Adrienne Rich, at Anne Sexton, at Hughes, at Plath, at Alexie, and see both how they all “betray their tribes” and how, at the same time, they tell us something important about what it means to live in America at this time, just as Hardy was saying something important about what it meant to live in England in the 19th C.   As a young woman with some dreams of being a writer, I hope she thinks  about how she will “betray” her own tribe, and what that will mean

J

Running On

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In better days…

Background reading: Thousands in New York, across the world run for Boston

Yesterday, on our drive home from the gym, my workout partner feigned interest in an ugly new house on our block.  Her ruse worked – I looked away from the sidewalk and missed the runner working her way up the hill with her dog.  My girlfriend knows I need the distraction – she worries I might roll down the window and chuck gum wrappers and car-trash at the woman and her German Shepard.  Usually this time of year, I’m training for a race.  Usually, I am consumed by long runs with my training-partner-husband and my old, brown Lab.  I am calculating miles, logging speed workouts, running through spring puddles.  Usually, I’m the girl running up the hill.

Not this year.

At some point this spring a sesame seed-sized bone under my left toe cracked.  I kept running until it hurt too much to run, and now my left foot is hermetically sealed in an inflatable, plastic boot.  I can lift weights and ride a stationary bike, but I can’t run.  This makes me grumpy – really grumpy.

I’ve said before that running gives me energy and purpose; it’s taught me about endurance and dedication.  I now know that my training schedule also kept me sane.  Running forces me outside in to Wyoming’s dubious spring weather.  It allows me to carve out quiet space from my busy working-mommy days and gives me a sense of control amid the chaos of teaching and writing.  It has also made me a part of a very specific community: I am a runner.

A few weeks ago, on another 5 am drive to the gym, I learned about the Watertown lockdown.  We sat in the driveway listening to the radio, eager to hear about the impending capture of the Boston Marathon bombing suspect.  I looked around the dark streets of our peaceful community.  I tried to picture armed troops moving through our streets, banging on doors, waving guns.  The images from the radio didn’t translate.  I could not imagine an invasion of our quiet neighborhoods.

But I can picture the runners at the finish line of the Boston Marathon.  I can feel the collective relief and joy of finishing the race.  I can picture the smiles and the energized hobbling that follows any race.  I can feel the sweat running down the backs of my knees and I can taste the cold post-race beer I always stash in the car.  I know what it sounds like to speak to a fellow runner – a stranger – about the grueling last miles of a long road race.  I know that sense of belonging that engulfs a finish line.

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my youngest son waiting for me at the finish line

One of my oldest friends wrote about the communal sense of accomplishment that surrounds distance running.  He told me that he can’t “think of a greater gathering to celebrate humanity and what we can accomplish than a marathon.”  The young men who bombed the Boston Marathon violated a sacred space.  They created terror and destruction, but they also eclipsed the accomplishment and heart of thousands of people.

I could survive without running.  I’d likely even get over being grumpy.  But like my marathoner friend, I can’t think of a better way to test my resolve and dedication than training for a long distance trail race.  I know something certain and simple every time I cross a finish line: I know my body and my mind.  And now I know that our racing has become an act of defiance – a celebration of not only personal accomplishment, but of freedom and community.

- Sarah

Marriage Expectations…They’re not all THAT

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Recommended Reading:

7 Reasons Why Age Doesn’t Matter in Marriage” by Sasha Brown Worsham

I overheard a conversation the other day that quite offended me: “A family can’t exist without children.” Well, as a child-free woman, I beg to differ.

A family concept is larger than a wife, husband, and child (or more). There are step-families, adopted families, close friends considered as family, pets, and so many other non-traditional families that I can’t even name them all. Family, as well as marriage, should be something defined by those in it, not by outside sources.

It was with this idea that I started reading Sasha Brown Worsham‘s article on “The Stir.” The article is Warsham’s response to Susan Patton’s letter to the women at Princeton University–an article Sarah responded to on this very blog. Worsham claims that people should marry whenever and whomever they want. She states, “It’s not what age you marry. It’s who you marry. Period. End of story.”

These posts, as well as Sheryl Sandberg‘s book Lean In, have me thinking about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. It’s discouraging that women still struggle with their place in our society and continue to fight for equal pay, equal status, and freedom over their own bodies. I thought these battles were fought and won a long time ago. But that doesn’t seem to be the case.

On the other hand, we live in a time period where women have more choices than ever before, and perhaps, it’s these choices that cause us to question once again our place in society.

Technically, I’m a newlywed. In June, it will be three years. I say “technically” because I have been with my husband for 13 1/2 years, but we didn’t exchange wedding vows until 2010.

Living together back in 2002 was a difficult decision–one that went against my family’s belief system, but it was the right decision for me and my significant other.

Not having children was another decision we made. Again, it was the right decision for me and my significant other.

I can understand why people want our lives and our roles defined: it can make life easier. If it is a wife’s duty to procreate, clean, and cook, then we know what our husbands expect, and we know what we need to do on a daily basis. Raised in a strict, Christian environment, I struggle with guilt about my “duties” as a wife: I keep thinking that I should do the dishes every day or keep the house spotless. I struggle with guilt that my husband does his own laundry and has household chores like he did growing up in his mother’s house.

At the same time, if I did all of these things on top of my full-time job, I would never have time to spend with my husband. We have our own expectations and our own ideas about how we want to live our lives.

What about the expectations of our own? What about the book I’m trying to write? The 60-hour work week my husband and I keep? Our desire to relax in each other’s company daily–sometimes more than once a day? What about those expectations? Should we ignore our own expectations in order to fulfill society’s expectations?

I don’t think we should, and yet, Patton’s letter and Sandberg’s book set up these expectations, but we do not have to meet them. Marriage is hard enough without bringing in other people’s expectations. Create your own. Live your life. It’s your life, and at the end of the day, you’re the one who chooses your own happiness. This is what Worsham gets right, and HAPPINESS is what feminism is really all about.

~K

Someone Like Us

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I ran a Young Writers Camp for thirteen summers at place called, appropriately enough, Story, Wyoming. A writer friend of mine, Dainis, and I started it, and over the years it expanded and we added staff, and changed staff, and kids came and went. But one of the things Dainis and I used to say to each other was that we did it because when we were kids we didn’t know anyone like us, meaning we didn’t know any writers.  We were voracious readers, but the process of how the words got from a writer’s mind to the hard cover books we toted around, or to the paperbacks that we read to tatters was, we realized, a mysterious one,  As we became adults who became writers, we found ourselves looking around and realizing that we had come to be writers without models, and really were, in those early days, kind of flying blind.

I have recently been using Sebastian Junger’s book War as a textbook for two of my English Composition classes. My students have responded enthusiastically to this book which recounts Junger’s time in Afghanistan as a journalist with troops in the Korengal Valley.  It is a thoughtful and serious, meditative book, but it is also full of action and deeply engaging descriptions of life at a remote outpost.

As one of the last assignments of the semester, I have asked my students to write  letters to Junger, commenting on the book, on the parts that were most moving, and also asking Junger questions that they might have about the book, the experience or the writing process.  Students have been sending me rough drafts before they turn in their final copies that I will e-mail to Junger.   What I am seeing is some of the best writing that I have seen all semester. These letters are open and honest. The sentences are clear. They are not trying to sound academic or awkwardly smart by using big words that aren’t quite right for the sentence.  These letters appreciate Junger’s work, and really engage in a conversation with him about the book.

As a writer, I  love learning about what people think about my poetry, and I think I am no different from most writers. We send our work out into the world and don’t always know, especially if we are writing poetry, how it is received. It is a gift for a writer to get thoughtful reactions to a book, but it is also a gift for readers, especially relatively inexperienced readers to have a chance to write to an author, even if they do not hear back.

 Correspondence is an  intimate form of communication. When students write to an author, they are engaging in the same process that the author has engaged in; that is, they are writing and using writing to explore questions that they have. When students have the chance to articulate what a book means to them in a personal way, it’s in many ways a richer process than the standard Comp I essay.

When my daughter was a young reader, she carried on a correspondence with one of her favorite authors. She exchanged a number of letters with Lloyd Alexander  that ranged from her questions about his work to comments about the writing she was doing.  It meant a great deal to her that someone whose work she loved so much would take the time to answer her.

I think about to Dainis, and how we spent those summer weeks engaged with our campers in writing, immersing ourselves in the work as much as the kids were, and I think about the kids who are now grown-up and working as writers and writing teachers.  They did know “someone like us.” They knew practicing writers and, thus, for them, writing was not a remote skill that only someone with “talent” could do, but it was a process that we all engaged in.  I would like to encourage all young readers, and not so young readers, to write to the authors whose work moves them. The writer might not answer, but I can pretty much guarantee that the act will be as important to the reader who writes the letter as it will be to the writer who receives it. Writing to someone is one of the easiest ways of joining the ranks of  people who use words to think, to invent and to understand the world. It is a way of becoming “someone like us.”

 

 

 

2013 Academic Advice for women: Find a husband? Really?

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The Daily Princetonian: Letter to the Editor

In her March 29, 2013, letter to the editor of The Daily Princetonian, Class of 1977 President Susan A. Patton tells Princeton women to find a husband: quick.  She claims smart women – in this case the cerebral women of Princeton – will only be happy if they marry an “intellectual equal.”  According to Patton if Princeton women wait until they leave the Ivy League they’re unlikely to run into many marriageable (read: smart) men.  She admits that “soaring intellect” might not be the only thing that makes a mate desirable, but “ultimately,” she writes, “it will frustrate you to be with a man who just isn’t as smart as you.”

Patton writes to the “daughters [she] never had.”  This is her advice to women at the top of their academic game? Get back to the old habit of seeking a Mrs. Degree? Get your ring by spring?

I suppose it is possible to read her commentary as heartfelt advice about long-term commitment.  Men and women operating from the same intellectual plane may be better suited for one another. They may have more to talk about – or argue over – as the years add up.  They may grow in similar directions and value similar approaches to life’s curveballs.  Maybe she’s just suggesting that a man with a good brain is easier to put up with.  Or that there is already enough misunderstanding in marriage without adding incompetency to the mix.

What strikes me about Patton’s letter is that she believes she holds the secret to happiness – she claims she’s willing to say what no other woman has the guts to utter out loud. Patton’s answer, her tough-love truth, is that marriage is the “cornerstone” of a woman’s happiness.   She writes this so unequivocally, that it’s easy to dismiss her ideas as backwards and uninteresting. She doesn’t leave room for other sources of happiness – friendships, or service, or intellectual achievement. However, it’s not Patton’s answer that resonates with me, but rather the question that precipitated her letter.

The woman of Princeton wanted to know about navigating life’s most important relationships.  They asked Patton about her friendships and her family. Women are looking for leaders.  We crave models and mentors who navigate the mixed up world of career and family with honesty and genuine concern for ethics and happiness.  And we want there to be an answer – some singular idea that will allow us to be content in a world ruled by chaos and change.

I want to dismiss Susan Patton out of hand.  But here’s the rub:  I did exactly what she suggests. I married while the marrying was good.  While it wasn’t Princeton, I did leave university with a BA and Mrs.  My path was far less calculated than anything Patton suggests.  It was a romantic risk perpetuated by some pretty good luck.   But it was my path – one I stumbled upon and one I choose every day.

There is plenty of advice out there at the moment: Lean In, opt-out, have it all, marry young. Patton’s suggestion to find an intellectual equal might be a good piece of advice (or an excuse to indulge in  distraction from college academics), but it is only one of many pieces. The arduous task of culling the pile of ideas is instructive. It seems possible that in the gathering of information, in the act of amassing and ditching theories and secret keys, we discover our allusive goal.  We forge our own paths.

 

 

Creating Style

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instylecoverRecommended Reading: In Style, April 2013.

Few people know that I used to be a runway model. It wasn’t anything fancy, and it wasn’t with a large modeling company, but I learned how to walk a runway and how to put together a fashionable look. I did it at first to help a friend, but she asked me to continue, and I thought I would make some extra money. I made some, but mostly I got some nice clothing.

At the time, I thought of the fashion world as glamorous. I also thought being a runway model would be fun. It really wasn’t. Only one store hired me for their shows. It specialized in plus-size clothing. At the time, I did not consider myself plus sized. I could wear a medium or large, depending on the style, and my weight fell into the healthy category (probably one of the few times in my life when this happened).

However, the other stores wanted sizes 2-6. That was not me, so I got “stuck” with the plus-sized clothing. The smallest size in that store was too big for me, but they pinned me into the clothing and made it work. I felt horrible about myself every time. About three runway shows later, I quit. Although I got to keep the outfits I modeled, it seemed pointless because they didn’t fit. I did sell some of the pieces and made some spending cash, but that ended my modeling “career.”

The modeling company I worked with pushed the envelope at the time, hiring models of all shapes and sizes. I supported that. Today, however, the clothing industry seems to be slightly more progressive–only slightly. I see more plus-sized models and a push for “real” women models and mannequins. Progress is slow, but it’s still better than when I modeled. Now, as a true plus-sized woman, I have more shopping options. Still, some doors are closed to me.

For now.

For years, I have dieted…and dieted…and dieted. I finally found something that works for me, and I have lost a total of 95 pounds (the details are for a different topic). I have more pounds to lose, but what’s most exciting right now is that I’m in a size I thought I would never wear again. I’m still in plus-size clothing, but in another ten pounds or so, that won’t be true anymore. In the meantime, clothes entice me, and I am powerless to their pull.

A wonderful friend of mine in the retail industry is also losing weight, and she passes down her clothes to me as she shrinks out of them. She’s one size smaller than me, so as she moves to the lower size, I move into the size she just vacated. I love it! And since I have little money to replace my wardrobe every two months, it provides me with new clothes!

Typically, these are not the kinds of styles I would choose for myself: color, lace, sheer material, and patterns, but they fit me, flatter my ever-changing figure, and they’re in style. Consequently, I find myself curious about fashion.

This curiosity drew me to In Style magazine. The cover also enticed me. Zooey Deschanel graces the cover dressed in red, her dark bangs brushing her eyelashes. I’m not particularly fond of her new show, but her acting and singing voice entertain me. Inside the magazine pages, Deschanel talks about style and a little bit about the ridiculousness of it. She also reveals her intelligence.

Despite not being very academic, I recommend this issue of In Style magazine mostly because it’s spring. I’m ready for color, skirts, and strappy sandals. If you don’t love it for the fashion or the beauty tips, it is still worth reading about Zooey Deschanel.

Although I am enjoying my new-found interest in fashion, part of me feels like a traitor to plus-sized women. I may not wear those sizes soon (and hope to never wear them again), but that image will still be a part of my inner character. I hope that I will remember where I came from, though, and never participate in discrimination and judgment of plus-sized women.

~ K

Making the Case I Should Never Have to Make for Reading Good Literature

 

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It is difficult
to get the news from poems
yet men die every day
for lack
of what is found
there

William Carlos Williams

I grew up in a family of readers. My mother used to put her hand to her forehead, and quote Shakespeare, saying “When to the sessions of sweet, silent thought” when her four young girls were too noisy. One of my earliest literary memories is of my father reading Kipling to me, and relishing the words “The great, gray, green, greasy Limpopo River all set about with fever trees.” I am sure that the way that these words continue to echo in my head has something to do with the fact that I am a poet.

However, teaching literature in a community college has become a somewhat endangered profession.  For years, we have required students to take two semesters of writing  ( Composition I and Composition II). Comp I is usually basic essay writing, and the readings are traditionally non-fiction essays, although I have tended to use whole books instead in my own classes. The books I choose are usually what I would call “popular nonfiction,” books like Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers or Jon Krakauer’s Where Men Win Glory. These books have generally engaged my students, although they find them challenging. I often tell them that these are books that college- educated people in this country read, but the greater reason for reading them is to learn about ideas and experiences that are outside those of the average Wyoming community college student.

Our Comp II classes vary, but the common course syllabus calls for an introduction to poetry, drama and short story, as well as learning to integrate research with writing. At Sheridan College, teachers have a great deal of leeway about what works they want to teach.  This semester I have taught Othello and The Laramie Project,  poems from an international anthology, poems by prisoners, novels by Tony Hillerman,  and classic short stories. A colleague of mine has taught Richard III, and Medea. Another colleague has taught The Gifts of the Body by Rebecca Brown, Wit, and an anthology of poetry by nurses.

We have gotten considerable pressure to open the Composition II slot to other subject areas. In theory, students could get the second level writing skills in courses that were more related to their majors. Our psychology teacher actually said, “I would rather have my students do research in psychology than a paper on The Great Gatsby.”  On the surface, this statement makes a kind of sense. However, if we step back and really consider what she was saying, it’s kind of horrifying.  The underlying assumption is that literature is not “practical,” doesn’t have any direct connection to a degree. This is a dangerous and narrow-minded assumption.

Good literature provides touchstones for us.  Good literature provides direction and inspirations. I think of Nelson Mandela, imprisoned in South Africa for 25 years, who continually drew sustenance for the poem “Invictus”  by William Ernest Henley (http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/invictus/)  or the way the psalms have provided comfort to people for millennia. Good literature helps us know what it means to be human. Students can know all the psychology or economics in the world, but if they don’t have a sense of empathy, an understanding of the depth and richness of common human experience, and a sense of wonder that beautiful language provides, then these students are missing one of the cornerstones of human culture.

Some people will argue that students need more practical skills first. However, one semester, during a Remedial English class, I introduced students to some poetry by Langston Hughes. One of the youngest students, an 18-year old woman about to be a mother for the first time, fell in love with Hughes’ poem “From Mother to Son.” This young woman printed out the poem, framed it and hung it in her baby’s room. The poem goes on to say, “Don’t you fall now—/ For I’se still goin’, honey,/I’se still climbin’,/And life for me ain’t been no crystal stair.”  This poem provided inspiration and guidance for this young woman.  The course provided her with many of the writing skills she needed to continue in college, but it also gave her a poem she will never forget.

I had a conversation with someone else recently who said something like “Well, Shakespeare might not appeal to students nowadays.”  I think as teachers, we have a responsibility to introduce students to Shakespeare. I think of the psychology teacher above, and I want to tell her that we can learn a great deal about human psychology, human behavior and to quote William Faulkner, “the human heart in conflict with itself” by reading Shakespeare.  I do not have the space to go into the beauty of Shakespeare’s language, but just meditate for a minute on Othello’s  statement, “Think of me as one who loved not wisely but too well.” To assume that Shakespeare might not appeal to some students implies that some students don’t need what Shakespeare ( and other great literature) has to offer. This assumption sells both our students and the literature short.

If we live totally in the moment, we have no history, no connection to our pasts. It’s a lonely place to be. Like Mandela, reading “Invictus” over and over, committing it to memory, we can find our place in the deeply rich human continuum if we have some understanding of and experience of the rich literatures of the world.  In an ideal world, children should be listening to and reading great literature from very early in their lives, but if that doesn’t happen for most children, we must provide some experience with great literature for all college students.  I would go so far as to contend that our civilization, our understanding of ourselves and our culture, in fact, perhaps even our lives depend on it.

Jane

 

Swedish Storytelling: Alive in the U.S.

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Swedish Folk TalesRecommended Reading: Swedish Folk Tales Illustrated by John Bauer

Swedish authors are popping up in bestseller lists across the United States. Authors Jo Nesbo (The Snowman, The Leopard, and The Phantom), Stieg Larsson (The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo series), and Marcus Samuelsson (Yes, Chef) help put Sweden on the current US pop culture map. These books top some of my favorite candy reading, but lately, I’ve been doing some different type of reading, including Swedish folk and fairy tales.

These folktales entertain me with trolls, gnomes, princesses, and castles. Although similar to the fairytales of my youth, these tales provide a respite from predictable outcomes and cliché themes. For example, in one story titled “The Changelings,” trolls swap their baby with the newborn princess (different versions represent different socioeconomic classes). Both sets of parents attempt to love their children despite their “hideous” looks. The ending isn’t exactly what you expect, but I won’t give it away. You’ll have to read it for yourself. Despite being written for children, lively characters and beautiful illustrations captivate my imagination.

Maybe it’s because I don’t have children and I’m not reading the same story every night before bedtime, but I find these folktales interesting, playful, and a bit dark. If you’re looking for something different for you or your children, I recommend any collection of Swedish folktales; however, if you’re also interested in beautiful illustrations, then I recommend this particular book.

If you prefer a Kindle Edition, then I recommend Swedish Fairy Tales (1890) by Herman Hofberg ($1.99 Kindle Edition); however, the Kindle does not do justice to the illustrations. Instead, spend the $15 on the hardcover with illustrations by John Bauer. It’s worth the extra money.

Why am I reading classic Swedish folktales? I’m glad you asked (warning…shameless plug ahead)! Last fall, Sheridan College accepted my application for a faculty lecture for this spring. My lecture takes place this Thursday, March 21st, 7:00PM in the CTEL auditorium on campus. Although I will discuss a few of these folktales, the presentation focuses on traditional Swedish folk music. My violin tuned, my bow rosined, and my storytelling skills sharpened, I’m prepared to entertain you. So, I hope that not only will you read the recommended book, but that you’ll also attend my lecture on Thursday.

~ K

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